Free Training  ·  May 12th · 6:30pm ET  ·  Recording Available

Free 75-Minute Training for Leaders

You've done
the work.
The gap is
still there.

Self-awareness is the first half of the equation. This free 75-minute training shows you the second half — and why every tool in your solution history was built to map only one of them.

Date May 12th
Time 6:30pm ET
Cost Free
Length 75 Minutes
Can't make it? Recording Available
Show Me the Gap Built for leaders who've done the self-awareness work and are still watching the gap operate.
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It's Tuesday afternoon. You're in the weekly team meeting. You make a decision — clearly, you think — explaining your reasoning, giving the context, being the kind of transparent leader every framework tells you to be.

Three days later, your most trusted direct report catches you before another meeting. "I just want you to know — people heard that differently than you meant it. A few of them think you've already made up your mind and the meetings are just theater."

You haven't. You were genuinely open. You said so, plainly. And they heard the opposite.

You've been here before. That's the thing. This isn't the first time someone has told you that what you said and what they heard were two different conversations. You've adjusted, adapted, done the work. You may know your assessment results well enough that most coaches in the room couldn't tell you anything new about yourself. And you're still standing outside a meeting room wondering what just happened to the message you sent.

Somewhere — not out loud, but somewhere — a conclusion has started forming: Maybe this is just how I lead.

That conclusion is reasonable. It's also wrong. But not for the reason you think.

You're not confused about who you are.
You're confused about why knowing who you are isn't closing the gap.

Who This Is For

Let me describe
the leader in this training.

This training is for leaders who are past "I need more self-awareness" and have landed at "I have the self-awareness — why isn't it landing?"

Not for you if:

You're just starting your leadership development journey. This training skips past beginner framing entirely. It's built for people who are past that — and frustrated that past-that isn't enough.

Why This Is Different

Every assessment you've ever done maps one variable — you.

Your motivations, your perception, your tendencies. That's self-awareness. It's real, it's valuable, and it's the first half.

The intent-impact gap is a two-variable problem. Your wiring is one variable. How it lands on your team is the other. The interface between those two variables has never been mapped by any tool you've used — because no tool was designed to map it.

You were solving the right problem. With only half the map.

That's a different diagnosis than "I need to do more work on myself." And it changes everything about what the correct next step actually is.

Self-Awareness

Why you do things — your internal wiring. What every coaching engagement, assessment, and feedback cycle has mapped. The first half.

Impact-Awareness

How your wiring actually lands — the translation interface between your natural expression and how others receive it. The half no standard tool was designed to produce.

You weren't failing. You were solving precisely — at the wrong structural address.

What You'll Learn

Three things in 75 minutes.

01

Why every tool you've used produced real insight — and couldn't close the gap.

It's not an implementation problem. It's a structural one. Every tool in your history was built to map self-awareness — the first half. The gap lives in impact-awareness — the second half: the translation interface between how your wiring expresses itself and how it's received. No standard tool was designed to map it.

02

The translation mechanism — in concrete, specific terms.

Not "communicate differently." The exact interface between your internal wiring and your team's external experience of you. In which contexts the gap is most likely to appear. What your specific wiring is generating — versus what your team is receiving.

03

What the Personal Operating Manual contains — and how you use it.

A working document, not a report. Your top 5 watch outs. Your alignment points. Targeted adjustments for the specific contexts where your signal is distorting — that work with your wiring, not against it.

What People Say

"That makes so much sense — my intent is to make people feel valued, but I can see how it sometimes comes across differently."
Melissa J.
"I don't have to change my tone, I just need to connect before I lead."
Tre G.
"I love that you're not trying to change who I am, but helping me reframe it so I can have a stronger impact."
Cindy K.
"I wish I would have done this 3 years ago — it would have saved me so much time and energy!"
Vicky G.
"I have learned so much about myself. I'm really grateful to you for this. A lot of insight in here."
Sally Hogshead — Creator, Fascinate®

The Promise

75 minutes. A real diagnosis.

In 75 minutes, you'll be able to name the specific mechanism generating your gap — and know whether it's in the signal, the filter, or the context.

That's not a framework. That's a diagnosis.

Show Me the Gap
Hillarie Kay

About Your Host

HILLARIE
KAY

Passionate. Expressive. Ambitious. Hillarie Kay is a dynamic force in leadership development, known for blending actionable strategy with a sharp understanding of human motivation — what she calls heart-centered strategy.

As a 4th generation business owner, Hillarie has trained and coached everyone from startups to Fortune 100 companies. She works at the intersection of psychology and productivity, helping leaders build sustainable success from the inside out — without sacrificing ambition or results.

For over a decade, she's worked specifically at the level where standard tools run out: the translation layer between how you're wired and how that wiring actually lands on your team. She works exclusively with leaders who've done the foundational self-awareness work — whatever tools got them there — and are still experiencing the gap.

Your Energy is Your Influence.

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The Translation Gap Training

Free  ·  75 Minutes  ·  May 12 · 6:30pm ET  ·  Recording Available

You've been asked — in different ways, by different frameworks — to change how you lead. To adjust your communication style. To soften your approach or sharpen your presence or modulate your energy.


None of those asks were about something being wrong with you. But they weren't the right ask, either. The right ask is this: What if you didn't need to change how you lead — you needed to understand how your leadership is actually landing?


This training doesn't ask you to change how you lead. It shows you why how you lead has been landing differently than you intend — and where the actual map is.


You already have the first half. This is where you get the second.

Show Me the Gap Free. 75 minutes. Built for leaders who've done the work.

The leaders who come through this training don't say they found something new. They say they finally have a name for something they already knew was happening — and for the first time, they know exactly where to put their hands.

Different approach. Same you.